Author: Melissa

  • Gave notice to SalesForce

    Until I did a couple of days at the Hospice I was keeping my options open with the SalesForce@Home work. But it looks like the Hospice job will work out, even though it is a completely different change of pace it will do me a lot of good to get out of the house and mix face-to-face with people again.

    I think SalesForce@Home is a fantastic idea for people who need to work from home. I was very impressed with the training and support, the philosophy and the passion of the people behind it. Even though I felt my first work session was a shambles – getting totally lost in the scripts, it was work I could have carried on with I think, had this other opportunity not come up.

  • New job at community hospice

    Dad tells me he knew I was going to get this one, as soon as he heard I’d been called for an interview. I wasn’t so sure, in fact on leaving the interview I was thinking philosophically about having missed out. I’d felt rather like a cold square peg trying to fit a warm and fuzzy round hole!

    The position is for an administration assistant, just two days a week for now. The work is pretty easy, the workplace – not morbid or sad at all but quite energising, people care about the work they do and are genuinely kind and friendly. My job is to help the Administration co-ordinator manage the raising of funds for operating costs – the centre needs to raise $700m a year. There is some state funding but most of it is raised largely through donations and sponsorships from the local community.

    The centre looks after no more than six guests at any one time, and has two nurses on duty around the clock. There are about 20 – 25 staff (I believe) and about 200 volunteers on the books. Needless to say, volunteers and training are very important in the centre’s operations.

    In my first week, one of the guests died. She was an elderly Aboriginal woman who had been living with her daughter’s young family. She had mentioned to one of the nurses that she was happy to come to the centre where it was a bit quieter. It is a lovely, peaceful place for both the guests and their families with all the comforts and facilities of home.

  • Reducing stress

    I found this list of 52 proven stress reducers, and reduced it to ten of my favourites:

    • Do nothing you have to lie about later.
    • Be prepared to wait. A paperback book can make a wait in a post office line almost pleasant.
    • Relax your standards. The world will not end if the grass doesn’t get mowed this weekend.
    • Write your thoughts and feelings down on paper. It can help you clarify and give you a renewed perspective.
    • Learn to live one day at a time.
    • Add an ounce of love to everything you do.
    • Focus on understanding rather than on being under stood, on loving rather than on being loved.
    • Be flexible. Some things are not worth perfection.
    • Stop negative self-talk: “I’m too fat, too old, etc…”
    • Have an optimistic view of the world. Most people do the best they can.
  • More Blessed to Give

    Luke 14:1, 7-14

    In the Gospel today, Jesus warns us not to give in to hopes of repayment, but to give openhandedly to the poor and needy. That sort of giving mirrors the bountiful giving of God, and Jesus assures us it is blessed indeed!

    – Fr. John Conway

  • Poverty and Compassion

    Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat.

    – Mother Teresa

  • Mums Rockweiler

    My aunt Irene breeds champion Rottweilers and during her last visit to my parents, brought the latest litter with her for Mum to take her pick!

    Dita is a very sweet little girl with a wonderful steady temperament. Mum says that with her sharp little puppy teeth she has a tendency to chew – but luckily it is just fairly harmless things, like rocks! Hence the nickname Mum came up with – instead of Rottweiler, Dita is a “Rock”weiler. Ha ha, you can see where I inherited my fondness for puns.

    Dita the rottweiler, 8 weeks old