Dropped in for a cuppa with my Nan today, she cracks me up. We had been saying how if either of us worked in a chocolate or biscuit factory we would probably get the sack for eating the stock! Nan remembered her mother had once been engaged to one of the biscuit-making Arnotts family. If they’d married, she said, at least we’d never be short for biscuits.
Author: Melissa
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The Five Vocations
The Church recognises that each vocation is equal in the sense that no vocation is better or less than any other. However, because God calls you to a particular vocation – whether marriage, priesthood, religious life, single life or diaconate – that vocation is the best one for you, and the one that will “fit” you best and make you the most happy.
Here is a brief outline of the five vocations:
Priesthood: A Catholic priest is a male ordained minister of the Church. Because they give their lives in total service to the Church, priests embrace the gift of celibacy and commit to a life of prayer. They proclaim the Good News, teach the Catholic faith, minister the Sacraments, work to build up their local faith community and lead their faith community in worship. Most priests will minister in a parish setting, while others may serve as chaplains to universities, hospitals, prisons, the armed forces and other industries.
Religious Life: A religious priest, brother or sister commits his or her life to sharing in the life and mission of their religious community. Religious priests, brothers and sisters embrace the call to poverty, chastity and obedience, and nurture their call through a life of celibacy, faith, prayer and service. Religious priests, brothers and sisters serve in areas such as education, health care, parish, youth ministry, aged care, spirituality, pastoral ministry, social work, amongst the poor and as a contemplative, and many will serve as missionaries in other cultures. Depending on the religious order, they may dress in “normal” clothes or in a habit.
Marriage: A married person lives a vow of faithful love to a spouse through the sacrament of marriage. Husbands and wives share a self-giving, love-giving and life-giving relationship with their spouse, and are committed to helping their spouse grow to human and Christian maturity. They seek to form a family home, and are together the first teachers of their children in Christian faith and values. Married people may serve in their parish community or in the Church in a number of different ways.
Single Life: A person called to single life comes to believe that remaining single is the true and right way to faithfully live his or her baptismal call. Single men and women embrace the gift of celibacy while living alone, with a family or with others who are single. They are able to devote time and energy in service of others, and may serve in their parish community or in the Church in a number of different ways.
Deacon: A deacon is an ordained minister of the Church. Most people are familiar with deacons who are in formation as priests but there are married and single men, who are called to the permanent, life long, ministry of deacon. Deacons proclaim the word of God, in preaching and teaching, administering the sacraments and pastoral ministry. Some deacons are in full time secular employment and some in part time or full time ministry within the Church. Deacons may exercise part or all, of their ministry in a parish. Often they may be engaged as chaplains in schools, universities or with particular communities and some may have roles within the administration and agencies of the diocesan church.
In each vocation, the person lives a life of faith and prayer to continually grow in relationship with God.
– Fr John Conway
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A Relationship with Christ
John 10:27-30
Today’s Gospel presents Jesus as shepherd to his people. His shepherd leadership is characterised by compassion, care, strength and protection. The message is one of belonging.
As God’s people we are called to an intimate relationship with Christ. Our lives are about listening and responding to the voice of the true shepherd.
– Fr John Conway
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Flippin newsletter module!
I’m working on a web site using a content management system called CMS Made Simple. Unlike some other CMS packages I’ve used, this one is nice and straightforward. Full admin control over the layout (no having to modify obscurely hidden files), smarty tags for content, nice admin control panel that clients can understand.
My client wants to send newsletters to her customers. This CMS has an add-on newsletter module, called Newsletters Made Simple. Like hell it’s simple! I’ve spent an afternoon on the users forum trying to find out why bits of it don’t work. I discovered a lot of the functionality is wishful thinking. Such as adding html templates and sending mail in html format. Still, I can’t gripe too much since it is open source. Will be a good module if development continues on it.
In the meantime I have to find another solution for my client. We currently have phpList set up for her, it is very powerful with a lot of features (that work!) but it is not very user friendly. I don’t know if she has used it, she didn’t give me a straight answer. I know I find it awkward to use, because I installed it for another client and she always asks me to send her newsletters out!
I’m about to try another list manager called Dada Mail, written in Perl. There is a free version with links back to them, and a pro version without the links. Hmm.. I like this feature:
Visitors to your list can also browse past messages sent with Dada Mail, a complete, dated archive is available to your visitors. Every archive screen also includes a subscription form to allow your visitors to subscribe to the list right there if they like what they’ve read.
It sounds pretty good, let’s test it.
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Better client relations
You’d think with many years in support type roles at work I would be able to get past personality clashes a bit better. Particularly since it is pretty important to my survival in business. I have this book, Attracting Perfect Customers
which I haven’t read yet but as soon as I get past my current reading list I’m getting stuck into it (so many books, so little time.)
I have this one client with whom I always seem to end up getting into an argument. We just seem to rub each other the wrong way. I’m feeling better about him today, because we just carried on a very productive and insightful conversation for once, without either of us getting defensive.
It’s all about WHAT is communicated, not HOW it is said. Although the ‘how’ is sometimes mixed up with the ‘what’, I have to remind myself not to misinterpret what is being said. If I assume, I am dead! It is always better to seek clarification than get into heated argument and feel like a huge idiot once the air has cleared.
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The perils of a shop front
Met up with a possible new client yesterday, a married couple in business, and was amazed at the problems they’ve experienced.
They distribute a very good, very unique specialty product that they and their customers absolutely love. The aggravation to date has been lack of support from their supplier. It isn’t your typical corporate greed, they are dealing with an individual who seems paranoid about anyone making money from his product.
The supplier sells the product through his country-based retail shop, his web site and through a small network of distributors who sell on commission through the party plan method (like Tupperware).
The couple negotiated a different deal with him, where they would purchase the product wholesale and sell through their own channels. They were convinced that a shop front in the city was a good idea and organised a lease.
The shop has really proven to be their undoing. Fearful the couple would make more money in their city shop than he makes out in the country, the supplier raised his wholesale price. Six months on they are getting very little walk in trade at the shop, they are doing more business at weekend markets and home-based parties.
It’s a nightmare situation, they have little or no margin on the product because they are competing with the suppliers retail prices. They are locked into an expensive city shop lease which is eating into their capital. The wife runs the shop single-handed as the husband works full-time (with my husband as matter of fact) and they can’t afford to pay an assistant. She is spending less and less time at the shop because they get more business out of the shop than in it.
To make matters worse they handed money over to someone to build a web site for the business, and it wasn’t finished. The guy just skipped. They then paid someone else to finish it for them, but it was poorly done and is still not what they want.
That’s how I first got involved about a month ago. H bought some product at work from the husband, and they got to talking about the web site. The husband asked me to do a tidy up of the site – fixing some terrible coding and spelling errors, in exchange for more of the product.
The couple recently had a break, and a hard think about what they are going to do with the business.
They have decided to get out of the shop, although they still have to pay the rent there until another tenant takes over. It is likely they will dump the current web site and I will probably be building them a new one with the focus on booking the parties, re-order of product and extending their sub-distributor network.
They have good ideas about marketing the product and are still committed to work hard with it. The parties are where the business is, and the good news is they’ve successfully negotiated better pricing from their supplier.